Today, we’re tackling a topic that's super relevant as we kick off a new academic year: the distinction between needs and wants.

It's something that pops up in all kinds of ways, and we think it's crucial to really dig into what these terms mean and how understanding them can impact different areas of our lives. So, let's dive in!

What are Needs and Wants?

Okay, so let’s break it down. A need is something essential—think about the things that you can't really function without. This could be food, shelter, or even that small glass of wine for Lindsey (careful more on that later!). A want, on the other hand, is more about those things you desire. They’re not crucial but sure are nice to have.

Real-Life Examples

In our coaching and mentoring work, we've seen just how muddy it can get when trying to separate needs from wants. For instance, take the story of a student who came to us wanting to be the next big TikTok sensation. At first glance, that’s a classic want, right? But as we chatted more, it turned out that for her, making music was a deep-seated need—it was her way of being seen and heard.

Tips to Navigate Between Needs and Wants

Navigating needs and wants isn’t always straightforward, but here are a few tips we've found helpful:

Prioritise effectively: Constantly ask yourself if what you’re doing is a need or a want. This helps in managing both your time and resources way better.

Align actions with goals: Sure, wants are great motivators, but needs lay down the groundwork for lasting satisfaction and real achievement.

Communication is key: Especially with kids or in teams, be clear about whether something is a want or a need. It helps everyone set the right expectations and reduces frustration.

Dispelling Myths

There’s this big myth that wants are somewhat trivial—totally not true! Wants drive us to push boundaries, innovate, and grow. They become problems only if they overshadow our basic needs or lead us into making poor decisions.

Practical Insight: The Wine Example

Let’s circle back to the wine example because it’s a good one. Lindsey wanted that glass of wine, but there was also an element of need in her decision—it helped her relax. It’s a fine line sometimes, and it’s crucial to be honest with ourselves about why we want certain things and whether they’re really serving our needs or just desires.

Engage and Reflect

As you go about your day, try catching yourself when you’re making a decision. Ask, "Is this a want or a need?" Reflecting on this can lead to more mindful choices, reduce clutter in your life, and help you focus on what truly matters.

Remember, understanding and distinguishing your needs from your wants isn’t just about making choices—it's about crafting a life that truly reflects your deepest values and meets your fundamental needs. Let's keep this chat going and support each other in navigating these often tricky waters.

Feel free to share your thoughts or questions about needs and wants. How do you distinguish between them? Any tips or experiences you’d like to share? We’re all ears!